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A letter to our parents

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Dear Parents

You might be inclined to create a minute by minute schedule for your children. You have high hopes of hours of learning, including online activities, science experiments, and book reports. You’ll limit technology until everything is done! But here’s the thing…

Our children are just as scared as we are right now. Our children not only can hear everything that is going on around them, but they feel our constant tension and anxiety. They have never experienced anything like this before. Although the idea of being off of school for 4 weeks sounds awesome, they are probably picturing a fun time like the summer holidays, not the reality of being trapped at home and not seeing their friends.

Over the coming weeks, you will see an increase in behaviour issues with your children. Whether it’s anxiety, or anger, or protest that they can’t do things normally – it will happen. You’ll see more meltdowns, tantrums, and oppositional behaviour in the coming weeks. This is normal and expected under these circumstances.

What children need right now is to feel comforted and loved. To feel like it’s all going to be ok. And that might mean that you tear up your perfect schedule and spend quality time with your children a bit more. Play outside and go on walks. Bake cookies and paint pictures. Play board games and watch movies. Do a science experiment together or find virtual field trips of the zoo. Start a book and read together as a family. Snuggle under warm blankets and do nothing.

Don’t worry about them dropping back in school. Every single child is in this boat and they all will be ok. When we are back in the classroom, we will meet them where they are. Teachers are experts at this! Don’t pick fights with your children because they don’t want to do maths. Don’t scream at your children for not following the schedule. Don’t set aside 2 hours of learning time if they are resisting it.

If I can leave you with one thing, it’s this: at the end of all of this, your children’s mental health will be more important than their academic skills. And how they felt during this time will stay with them long after the memory of what they did during those 4 weeks is long gone. So keep that in mind, every single day.

Stay safe. X

 

Prevent & wider safeguarding during COVID Crisis

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Prevent & wider safeguarding during COVID Crisis

With the prospect of schools across Wales remaining closed for a significant period of time, the likelihood of children spending a considerable amount of time researching, gaming or communicating online will increase. The priority for all parents and teachers is to keep children safe online, prevent harm and safeguard at all times. People may choose to exploit the most vulnerable within our communities because they understand during these challenging times children will be online more than usual. Please consider the following when you or your child is online;

Children should;

· Know who they are talking to

· Check if they can access material, play games

· Protect their online reputation

· Only open messages from sources they trust

· Do not give out personal information

· Do not share images, video of inappropriate material

· Speak to someone if they feel uncomfortable

· Understand not everything online is true

· Block and report people who are trolling

· Do not give into pressure

· Think before they post

· Keep safe online

Parents should;

· Monitor who their child is communicating with online

· Monitor the content and material accessed or downloaded

· Check content is appropriate

· Set boundaries and parental controls

· Discuss their online activity

· Manage / check privacy settings

· Know where to find help

Report concerns https://www.gov.uk/report-terrorism https://www.gwent.police.uk/en/advice/advice/t-z-terrorism-witness-of-crime/terrorism/prevent/ https://www.dyfed-powys.police.uk/en/advice-support/i-am-worried-about-terrorism-activity-radicalisation/i-am-worried-about-someone-being-radicalised/prevent-referral-form/ https://www.north-wales.police.uk/advice-and-support/stay-safe/combating-extremism https://www.south-wales.police.uk/en/

Message to our Pupils

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Dear Trallwn Pupils

I am writing to you as we have had to close school to prevent any further spread of coronavirus, as I talked to you about as something we may have to do in assembly last week.  Your parents and the people who care for you will be keeping you safe.

For most of you, Friday would have been the last day that you were in school for a long time.  When you come back, things will be different. It won’t be Spring any more, you will have grown taller, and you might even have lost a tooth!  You will probably be in the next year group.  For those of you in Year 6, we probably won’t have another school day with you.  This makes us feel sad, and we know you will be too.  None of us grown-ups have ever experienced anything like this, so it is as strange to us as it is for you.  We think about you every day, and we are all still able to be contacted by email, and if you really need us to help you with anything you can use the school text or the number I have given your parents to contact us.  If you are worried or upset or feel unsafe you must try to contact us or tell a grown up you trust.

You all have home learning to do, and we encourage you to continue with this every day.  We will be so proud of you all for continuing with your reading and writing, numeracy and IT skills. We will also be proud that you are helping to stop the spread of this virus by washing your hands properly. You can make the most of this by having fun too – play games with your families, do things outside in the garden, cook, bake, draw, make things, watch your favourite films together cuddled up on the sofa.  We will keep planning things for you, we still care about you, and will wonder how you are.

Some of you will come back to school tomorrow, but not many.  This is not because we don’t want you all back, but because some children will need to be looked after by us for their parents to go and work in jobs that are important for keeping everyone safe, such as nurses in the hospitals, firemen or teachers like us.  You will not be able to come to school tomorrow unless your parent or carer does this.

Remember that there is lots of good going on in the world right now too, such as communities helping each other, which is so important at a time like this.  We are saying goodbye for a little while, but think of this as a little adventure that we are all on together.  Be brave and take care everyone.  You’re the best pupils any headteacher and staff could wish for.

See you in a while.

From Mrs Barker and everyone at Trallwn Primary School xxx